God as Father, God and fathers

by Fr. Michael Plekon
The Lord’s Prayer starts off “Our Father, who art in heaven…” And when making the sign of the cross, Christians do it “in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.” God is father, Son and Holy Spirit, the Holy Trinity. And this is invoked both at the start and end of the Eucharist or Sunday Service of scripture, prayer and communion.
Long before Jesus arrived on the scene here in our world, his Judaism called God Father. Almost twenty references to God as Father can be found in the Hebrew scriptures. In psalms 68, 89 and 103 God is a compassionate loving father. The very word in Hebrew for this compassion is rachamim, derived from the word from womb, where all our lives began (rehem). Is it not telling that as our Father, God should be so close, so intimately entwined with our lives. In the prophets, Isaiah and Jeremiah in particular, God is a Father, a friend to us from our very birth. The Father is the potter, we are the clay.
Jesus would have used the Aramaic word Abba for Father. In Hebrew it is Av. The Greek is Patēr. In the New Testament there are over 250 times where God is referred to as Father, over 170 in the gospel of John alone. There Jesus is in continuous conversation with his Father. Jesus says that if we hear and see him, we see the Father. The letter of James called God the father of lights from whom all good things come. Paul in his letters uses the Aramaic Abba, probably closer to “Daddy” or “Pop.” God is not so much the remote king. God is like as father who takes us up in his arms.
In the Hebrew scriptures, God as Father is not just the parent who helps create life but even more the parent who nurtures, who feeds and protects, in short, who cares for his child. The Father is a model of honesty and integrity. The Father is also a mentor, the one who communicates what is good, true and beautiful. And who lives what he teaches! Contrary to common misperception, God in the Hebrew scriptures is not a vengeful, aggressive tyrant. God is a loving spouse, a peacemaker, a healer. God is the Father who wants only good for his children.
In the writings that followers of Jesus also listen to, the texts of the New Testament, God is all of the above. After all when the first Christians mention the scriptures it is the Hebrew scriptures to which they are referring, their own letters and gospels not even having been put into written form yet. Jesus cries out to his Father in great distress as in the garden of Gethsemane. In Luke’s gospel we have the beautiful parable of the prodigal son, just as accurately titled as the parable of the loving, forgiving Father. The younger son wastes his share of the family fortune, completely messes up his life. But when he turns to go home, his father comes out to meet and embrace him. This Father’s crazy love has him throw a party to celebrate his return, much to the displeasure of his other son.
From this we learn God is the father who always forgives and takes us back. God as father is so much more generous than we are.
The husband of Mary, Jesus’ mother, indeed his earthly father, Joseph, mirrors what the scriptures say God, and all other fathers should be. Joseph cares for his wife and new child, makes sure they are safe by fleeing to Egypt. We can imagine Joseph teaching Jesus the skills of a carpenter. In the long talk Jesus gives at the last supper, and after his being raised, Jesus repeatedly calls on the Father to be with his friends, to send them the Spirit, to guide and protect them always.
In the scriptures there are fathers who are weak, who are selfish and who damage their families. We know this from our own experience. Fathers are far from perfect. As they age and pass from us, we can be forgiving for their shortcomings and mistakes. Yet there are also fathers who act with courage and do what is needed for the family’s wellbeing, no matter how difficult this may be. In both cases, love is stronger than the weaknesses. On Fathers’ Day, we show love for our fathers, grandfathers and others who were like fathers to us. And the message rings out clearly from all of the scriptures. God is the loving Father. So should we also be, as fathers, mothers, sisters, brothers. The good we try to do for others is God loving and acting through us..






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